Years ago, a friend introduced me to a Dean Koontz novel. (Watchers.) And then I introduced my dad. While we both enjoy his books, my dad is hands down the biggest fan. Now he recommends and loans his Koontz books to me. So as a family of dog lovers, it's only fitting Dad recommended A Big Little Life, Koontz's memoir about Trixie, his beloved golden retriever.
(Side note to Dean Koontz, if you ever by chance see this rambling post. My parents now have a golden of their own. Inspired in part by you. And Trixie, of course.)
My first question when Dad handed me the book: "What chapter should I stop reading at?" I know how this ends. The way all good dog books end. With a box of tissue and puffy eyes. But even in my teasing, I knew I would read it. Every chapter. All the way to the end. And then proceed to remind my pup that she is required to live a very, very, unusually long dog life. I also frequently remind her of this every time she has the desire to chase a bus. Which is unfortunately more often than I would like.
Well, I've reached that chapter and find myself hesitant to continue. Maybe this weekend. Rainy day. Fire in the fireplace. Box of tissue. Pup by my side. Back up box of tissue. Appropriate setting for a tearjerker, don't you think?
But sniffles aside, I've loved the book so far. If you've ever had the pleasure of sharing life with a dog, you'll appreciate Koontz's anecdotes. Like their peculiar preferences when it comes to where they choose to do their business. Or how they train us to stay on their schedule. (Mom, this is snack time. You're supposed to give me a cookie right now. I'm going to stare at the cupboard and then you until you do.) Koontz also captures those moments where man's best friend seems ever so much more than just a dog. They have an instinct and insight we often don't fully appreciate.
From the endearing times, to the humorous ones, to the moments in a dog's life we will never truly understand, Koontz opens up his heart and his home to share the story of a dog and her companions, while also reminding readers to appreciate the little wonders in life.
"No, a plate of nachos is not the meaning of life. But finding joy in things as humble as a plate of nachos is an important step toward the discovery of meaning." (p.132)
And with that, the pup is tugging on my sleeve because I've spent too much time on the computer. Seriously. That wasn't a planned, "oh how conveniently appropriate," line. I've typed this sentence three times because she keeps pulling my arm. So I'll try to quickly sign off with one of my favorite passages in the book:
"For a dog, the world is an ever-expanding carnival of mysteries. Every new experience enchants, and every morning is full of promise. As children, we share that attitude, but we evict it when we become adults, as if the knowledge that comes with experience needs to occupy that particular chamber of the mind, as if wonder must make way for wisdom. But wisdom without wonder is not true wisdom at all, but only a set of practical skills married to tactical shrewdness of one degree or another." (p. 146)